Today I am going
to tell you how her school friends saw Dina – is that alright?
They say that
Dina was always very punctual and attentive in class. She never found an excuse to be absent from
school. Very studious and gifted, methodical in her work, she never lost a
minute. Doing well in every subject, she came first, but was never proud.
Always very generous, one day she allowed another student who had ten marks
less than her, to take the first place for which she had struggled and which
was hers by right. She was known as an outstandingly good student.
One companion says that Dina was a little nervous. She was rather timid
but made efforts to overcome her timidity. Dina was a little shy of her
above-average height. The
somewhat fearful look in her eyes made her companions nick-named her “our little gazelle” which greatly amused
her. In spite of this timidity, if it was a question of helping her companions,
she did so. When any of them got up to mischief, she never reported about them,
but when asked, told the truth. She never told lies.
Dina did what
her teachers told her, which was more than the rest of us, and for this we
pulled her leg, calling her Saint Dina, Holy Dina. This was not from ill will,
but to tease, although underneath we did admire her.
She was very
humble and unpretentious, she did everything naturally. She was simple,
courteous, distinguished in her manner and easy to get on with. She did not
speak of herself or of her gifts; if these were mentioned, she accepted
graciously. She did not take the first place in meetings. She did not say much,
but when she did speak her conversation was serious, but agreeable and
entertaining, listening to all that was of interest to us.
Dina was
self-forgetful and thought of others. She always had something good to say to
those who annoyed her. She did not like to hear unkind things being said about
others, she knew how to make excuses for their shortcomings. In conversation she never criticised or said
anything disagreeable about other people.
When a conversation arose about someone, she always tried to bring out a
good quality. One companion says that she never listened to criticism: if I
criticised sometimes, she found an excuse, assuming that the person’s
intentions were good; she corrected my opinion but without being harsh. I do
not think that I have ever heard that she made anyone suffer, she was too
gentle for that.
Dina had a strong personality but was never in a bad mood. I was
near her in the dormitory and in the mornings I noticed that she always had the
same smile. In one music examination they asked her something that surprised
and bewildered her; she blushed and seemed very annoyed, but soon regained her
self-possession. She was rather slow and once her mother reproached her for
making me wait, she was not cross but smiled humbly.
Her life was
reflected in her writings. When asked about this, her companions say that what
she says about her childhood and adolescence is true. We can see that she was interiorly fulfilled.
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